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Robin Williams Suicide Predictable and Preventable
by John M. Curtis
(310) 204-8700
Copyright
August 17, 2014 All Rights Reserved.
Tying a primitive noose around his neck with his belt, affixing it
to his bedroom door jam and hanging himself to death at his home in Tiburon,
Calif. Aug. 11, 63-year-old Oscar-winning Robin Williams stunned the
entertainment world with his gruesome suicide. As news of Williams’
suicide spread like wildfire, his three-year-long wife Susan Schneider expressed
shocking disbelief. “I am utterly heartbroken. On behalf of Robin’s
family, we are asking for privacy during our time of profound grief. As he
is remembered, it is our hope the focus will not be on Robin’s death but on the
countless moments of joy and laughter he gave to millions,” said Schneider, in a
carefully-worded statement, no doubt prepared by Williams’ publicist.
While it’s convenient for Schneider to ask for the public’s restraint during her
time of grief, it’s inconceivable she didn’t know the severity of her husband’s
mental illness, especially his recent stint in rehab for depression and
substance abuse.
Judging by her request for
privacy, Schneider doesn’t want to answer questions why her husband’s suicide
wasn’t discovered by her but his publicist when she noticed Williams wasn’t
answering his cellphone. Responding to an urgent call 11:55 a.m. Monday,
Aug. 11 from Williams’ publicist, Marin County paramedics arrived at 12 p.m.
declaring him dead at 12:02 p.m. by asphyxiation. Hanging himself speaks
volumes about the funny-man’s disturbed side either disguised because of his
unending comedic façade shown to the public or that his closest family and
friends didn’t take him seriously. When he went back to world-famous
Hazeldon Drug Treatment Center in Lindstrom, Minnesota in June, they apparently
missed Robin’s festering suicidality. Focused on treating depression and
suicide, substance abuse and mental health professionals often miss lethal signs
of suicidality while they busy themselves treating alcohol and drug-related
problems.
While it’s certainly true that
most suicidal patients carry diagnoses of major depression or bipolar disorder
or co-morbid conditions like alcoholism or drug abuse, it’s also true that many
depressives and bipolar disorder folks are not suicidal. When it comes to
well-known celebrities like Williams, treatment staff were too busy
oohing-and-aahing to get to the real issues that threatened Robin’s life.
Suicidality often disguises itself in many forms, especially with otherwise
gifted-and-talented individuals, capable to distracting or lulling counselors
into a false sense of security. When treatment staff deal with
high-profile celebrities, no less Oscar-winning actors, or powerful politicians
or corporate CEOs, they often get distracted by the patient’s charisma and
accomplishments to stay laser-focused on pressing mental health and substance
abuse issues. Hazeldon professionals clearly missed the biggest threat to
Williams’ life: His covert suicidality that went untreated until it was
too late.
Asking the press to back off does
little to shed light on what went wrong with Williams’ relationship that his own
wife couldn’t see the impending doom. Everyone should have respect for the
family’s privacy but law enforcement, mental health workers and the public have
a right to know what went wrong to protect Williams from his self-destructive
propensities. When you see the aftermath of suicide and homicide, there
are many victims, including family, friends and the public. Williams no
doubt had a local Marin therapist or psychiatrist that provided him therapy and
medication for his diagnosable mental health problems. Suicide by
hanging shows a degree of self-violence often seen in untreated bipolar
disorders or psychotic states where patients’ reality-testing gets obscured by
intense emotions and cognitive distortions. For Williams to hang
himself—as opposed to more humane methods like drug overdoses or even
gunshots—shows the severity of his mental illness.
Whether admitted to or not, suicide is a
violent act against the self. Today’s homicide-suicide acts where serial
killers or mass murderers take their own lives after murdering others, shows the
violent nature of murder, whether to the self or others. Recent reports
from Schneider about Williams’ diagnosis of early-stage Parkinson’s disease
offer little insights into the mental state that led to her husband’s suicide.
Refusing to reveal Williams treating doctors shows that his tragic death offers
no insights to help prevent others from following the same path. If
Schneider didn’t have a clue about her husband’s mental illness, it speaks
volumes about her relationship to her husband. “Robin’s sobriety was
intact and he was brave as he struggled with his own battles of depression,
anxiety as well as early stage Parkinson’s disease, which he was not ready to
share publicly,” said Schneider, again, offering no insights into how her
husband managed his suicidal impulses.
Getting to the bottom of what sent Williams over the edge won’t be easy as long
as his closest loved ones prefer platitudes over inviting Williams’ treating
doctors to disclose his medication list and course in therapy. It’s highly
doubtful that Williams was only treated sporadically at Hazeldon without having
a local treating psychiatrist and therapist. Failure to heed his
suicidality—and the lifesaving steps needed to protect his life—cost the
63-year-old Academy-Award-winning actor-comedian his life. “Robin spent much of
his life helping others,” said Schneider talking about his TV, film and
philanthropic legacy. Failing to come to grips with the factors related to his
suicide offers little hope for others dealing with similar problems. If
Williams’ real legacy was helping others, his family should let his substance
abuse and mental health professionals open up about what went wrong that failed
to prevent Williams’ untimely death
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